Bullying is not ok

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So last night I was cyber-bullied by a very insecure  young girl. I responded back by calling her out on all of my social media handles. I do what I do because I enjoy it and I grow from it. Growing up, it was always my dream to be an Actress/Singer and Model. After pursuing acting and singing for a while, I found my way into the pin-up community upon moving from New York to LA back in 2010. From that I produced my own cabaret show and started my professional modeling career back in 2014, when I modeled for Pinup Girl Clothing and their “Couture for Everybody Campaign”. I was at my most vulnerable during that time, but decided to make the most of that experience and had a blast.

2nd Bullying post
This is the second post that : Officiallyviviennetaylor  decided to share to illustrate her point.

Everyday I strive to pursue my dreams, work hard, eat clean, workout, and I choose to live a healthy lifestyle. Yet still I don’t fit into society’s beauty standards. There are and there will always be people telling me that I look unhealthy, that I should lose weight and workout. I think it is a shame that some people are still so brainwashed by what they considered the ideal beauty standard, as shown in the post of Jayne Mansfield below, along with a definition of what Curvy is.

Beauty Standards from the 1950s
Pictured here is actress Jayne Mansfield.

Definition of Curvy.

“Why hide your body or yourself because you are not a size 0?”

The amount of support and love I have received back from followers and non-followers was mind-blowing. I didn’t expect for this to bring in so many good people. What is really painful in all of this, is that these attacks were made to hurt me personally. I actually met the troll at a retro shop over a year ago, but I didn’t remember. Apparently she held a grudge against me, without me knowing and started leaving mean comments below my photos a few months ago. I blocked her and forgot about it. Cyber-bullying along with stalking are such a big issue when you decide to put yourself out there like I do.

The whole experience really made me realize that posting on social media can attract crazy people. I still want to have a voice in this world and I feel like I was meant to be part of the body positive movement. Becoming a pin-up model contributed to making me more body positive and self-accepting. It has also opened my eyes on the fact that all bodies are beautiful and everyone deserves a place in our society. And everyone obviously deserves to wear beautiful clothes. My message isn’t about glamorizing a certain body type, it’s about celebrating myself as a woman and an artist.

Here are some re-posts by fellow Instagrammers supporting me.

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This is why I decided to continue branding myself as a pin-up model and plus size model. And I can’t tell you how many women have thanked me for giving them better lingerie options or inspired them to “Slay”. Why hide your body or yourself because you are not a size 0? At the end of the day we only live once and I believe that loving yourself and others is the way to go.

Furthermore, Pin up modeling is for me  a form of therapy and also taking the power back. It is about knowing that all women and all bodies are beautiful and have a place in our society. When I first started in the industry, it was a way of  re-discovering my body and myself, after a physical trauma. My body has changed throughout the years due to personal medical issues, which I have previously exposed. (cf: https://jennyrieu.com/celebrate-yourself-2/) I have worked through them and still do; and will not tolerate any cyber-bullying about myself or  anyone else.

Wearing Curvy Kate Swimwear.
Wearing Curvy Kate – Photo by Jason Kamimura Photography.

I will end on this note, that if we can’t support one another how the Hell are we going to positively move forward in a world that is already falling apart. Being creative helps get my feelings out there and express myself, and I feel blessed for that. But I also feel like people should stop tearing each  other apart, as there is enough negativity and hatred in this world.

Thank you for reading and remember to always Own Who You Are.


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